This will be short. What is the measure of a man? The measure of a man, Christian or not, is Christ Himself. All that Jesus Christ did in His life and ministry, not to mention all that occurred because of His death, is the display of what a true man is. He was the Man, Christ Jesus. This is a statement of His humanity, but it was also a statement of his heart.
For there is one God, and one mediator also between God and men, the man Christ Jesus,
1 Timothy 2:5
He’s a Man. When you examine His words, His actions and reactions, His behavior, His feelings, to both men and women, young and old, what you see, if you live long enough to complete your examination, is a true Man. He is not masculine if your view of masculinity is an insensitive, uncaring, dunce who simply is clueless about the world around him because of his self-absorption. He is masculine if your view of masculinity is a Man who pleased the Father in every word and action.